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BeroOoWhere there seems to be no way... God will make a way 5/26/2009 Time TerrorismWhenever you grow older, your time is no longer yours.. Yes it is "YOUR" time.. But it is no longer yours..!! Everything does take a little part of your time.. your job, your family, your friends, your goals in life, traffic, physical needs (sleeping, eating, bathing...etc).. The point is that each of these start to take a little part of time, then everyday your duties does increase, so that little part of time is growing more and more.. Until at a certain point, you find yourself fully occupied.. Unfortunately, duties keep growing.. And you become fully loaded.. At a point you have to compromise between the needs.. You eliminate physical needs.. Then family and friends.. You cannot eliminate work.. If you go on that way.. One by one, you will eliminate work duties as well.. Not because you stopped giving.. But because they are growing in a way extremely above your potenials.. Your powers are gone.. Turning to machines.. At that point.. You will be occupied by TIME.. Time took over you.. You no longer have yourself.. What a pity! 5/25/2009 Things I wish to do – cont’dThe rest of I wish series is now here :) 26- I wish to read novels; English and Arabic. Everyone of us has his own list of wishes.. We should keep on dreaming no matter happens around us.. and this is what I am trying to do.. :) 5/20/2009 Things I wish to doA million thing I keep wishing to do.. But I never have the time.. 1- I wish to keep hurdling and running I wrote down the first 25 things I wish to do.. They are a million.. May be in other post I will mention the rest.. 5/12/2009 A DisasterA couple of days ago.. I was at the faculty, giving a section.. That was one of the strangest days ever at college... A student stole my mobile phone! The students does appreciate what I am doing to him by stealing his own teacher… After sometime, when I left the students do the experiment themselves.. A couple of people were having fun.. I mean “enjoying” each other! The guy was holding the girl’s hands and they were REALLY so close from each other! Well.. That was one of the most disastrous days I have ever faced in my entire life.. I kept crying for three successive days that people became that bad.. Morals disappeared.. Ethics are buried.. Humanity does not exist anymore! 2/26/2009 Who am I?!This is the question that I need to ask myself. What do I do in this life.. Am I a good person.. Am I a good friend.. Am I a terrible person.. Am I a horrible mate.. Am I a role model.. Am I a failure.. Am I loveable.. Am I strong enough to face life.. Do I really live on my own.. Am I lonely.. Am I alone.. Am I who I think I am.. Am I who people think I am..
Who am I.. This is the question that needs an answer.. I need to know who am I so as to figure out what I really need.. To figure out an answer for every single question I am asking myself.. I need to think.. When I start to think.. I do not know why I always think negatively.. I remember my bad things.. I think of them till I feel myself the most terrible person on Earth..
Some other times, when I think positively.. I feel myself the most special amazing person on Earth!! Does this make any sense for anyone.. Well.. It makes perfect sense for me.. My mood is the main reason behind all this.. Whether I feel good or not.. Whether I be myself or not..
But the question which badly needs an answer is..
Who am I... What is the definition of "MYSELF"?!! 2/8/2009 It hurts too much..It hurts too much..
When you feel unheard When you feel betrayed When you feel misjudged When you are asided It hurts too much..
When the ones you love become so far apart When the nearest friends allow that love to depart It hurts too much..
When your brothers stop listening When you are always forgiving When you are over giving When everyone stop caring It hurts too much..
When you miss your parents When you miss your friends When you miss the ones you care for Even the way they looked before! It really hurts too much.. 2/6/2009 A little storyI opened my blog having this strange desire to write something.. I scanned my mind.. Subject after the other.. It's like turning the pages of a book.. One after the other.. I found a million thing I wish to write about.. But which one shall I start writing about now.. This was the hard question.. Shall I pick politics.. Country attitude.. Governmental issues.. Well.. absolutely not..! This is not the mood for a friday morning thing.. Shall I pick sports.. My old sports life.. Well.. yes.. It sounds cool.. Hurdles.. Running.. Speed.. Competition.. Beating time.. Wow I am already feeling the tense of the race.. Aaaah No! Again.. No.. Friday morning everyone is still sleeping.. laziness everywhere.. Not the right mood for sports issue.. Then.. Let's pick something about pshycology.. Well.. It seems to be a good issue.. Analyzing human behaviour.. Thinking about consiquences of actions.. Making up actions and reactions.. Creating theories.. But what shall I say about pshycology.. It's a very wide topic.. I can proceed in the relationships series.. I know that I still have a lot to talk about.. Couples together to be continued.. But no.. I won't go through this now.. Friday morning =) I don't know what's the problem with friday morning.. But it is a vain reason.. "Talkeek ya3ny"..
So.. pshycology does not seem to be the mood for today.. Then what.. I still wish to write something.. Shall I close this blog and surf the internet without writing anything.. Hmmm.. No.. It doesn't seem to be a good idea.. Come on... What is my problem.. I only need to pick something.. Ok.. I picked one.. I will write a poem.. A poem about.. about.. about.. let's talk about life.. ok.. Good idea.. Then let's concentrate.. Generate the first couple of lines.. Here they are.. And then.. thinking and thinking.. thinking and thinking.. Well.. Nothing written after the first two line.. The flow of words has stopped.. A technical problem or what! Think again.. Shall I switch that life topic.. Or shall I switch that poem thing from the very begining.. ! Oooh Nooo.. I've got back to the start point AGAIN.. The same desire to write something.. But no subject yet...! What is this hesitation.. !!
Well.. The previous two paragraphes are here to illustrate the abstract meaning of HESITATION.. I am not hesitating or anything.. I just wanted to show you how hesitation works  I could do it right? :)1/23/2009 Relatioships IVCouples Relationships (cont'd)
Now here it comes.. The couples relationships while being TOGETHER.. There are a lot to say for this issue.. But I will sum up as much as I can..
First of all.. Mutual respect.. This is something that rarely happens these days!! Yes it rarely happens.. You see her walking with her friends talking about her man in a terrible way.. You see her embarrassing him on public (and of course on private).. You see her insulting him infront of her family and his family.. You see her dis-obeying his words - from the respect point of view.. On the other hand, you see him TOTALLY disrespecting her.. He walks with her (and without her) looking to other girls.. Laughing with every single girl he meets.. Insulting her on public and private as well.. Insulting her family.. Even infront of their kids.. And in some rare cases it reaches the level of beating!
Second thing.. Mutual trust.. Trust is a word which means a lot between couples.. But a lot of people mis-use the word...Trust simply means giving everything to your partner without worrying about his/her reaction..Trusting each other leads to sharing everything.. every thought.. every memory.. every mistake.. every sweet thing.. without being scared.. Trust is being open to each other.. Trust is being sure of your partner's behavior even if he/she was on another planet! Trust is a basic building block between couples..
Third one.. Keeping the passion.. Yes I mean the word passion.. Nowadays everyone is occupied with his/her work and life.. People forget their partners.. People stop making surprises and sweet gifts for each others.. People stop showing love and passion.. I believe that love is a plant.. If we stopped watering it.. It will die.. Love needs passion to stay alive.. Your partner have rights on you.. The least of the least is staying together for some hours during the weekends.. These hours should be really special.. Full of love and romance.. Full of passion and little surprises.. One should keep away trouble and make these couple of hours really special for the one he/she loves.. This is how "keeping the passion" works out.. [ I did not say do not talk about positives and negatives of life.. But just keep these special hours really special ]
Fourth.. Keep yourself for your partner.. I guess this is a very hard one in this life.. But we should do it.. First of all... How can I keep myself for my partner?! This shall be done by avoiding every little thing that annoys your partner.. and by doing every little thing that makes him/her happy.. I am not telling you to be someone else.. But I am trying to tell you "search for his/her happiness".. Searching for each other's happiness is one thing to keep yourself for your partner.. One more thing is by taking good care of yourself for him/her.. This is by being respectable.. respecting your partner even in his/her absence.. taking good care of the way you look either in the house or in public.. taking good care of your work.. taking good care of your behaviors.. simply.. "Keep yourself for your partner"
I guess the fourth point makes us now go to the theory which says "Not every couple are a match".. After all.. When you pick a partner.. Do not search for someone who needs a lot of things to change to match your dreams.. If he/she was not already your dream.. Then you are picking the wrong person.. It is really not that easy to change a person to be someone else.. :)
There are a lot for relationships between couples.. But these are the basic building blocks for a couples relationship together.. 1/6/2009 Is it real?In some way it is real..
The way you make me feel.. Everyone can hear my heart peal.. For all my wounds, you are the heal.. You took away my pain..
My life is no longer vain.. You moved away my strain.. Because of you.. I am insane.. You really became my life..
Your guide is why I survive.. Now I wish to be your wife.. With you, life is the sweetest drive.. You are the reason why I became me.. You gave me the chance "To Be" You are the only one I can see.. My dreams became only you and me.. 12/24/2008 Irony of fate...This is what I never believed in before.. "Irony of fate".. Is it really a true thing.. Do you believe in it.. Does it really happen in our daily life.. After years and years of thinikng.. I simply found it happening in everyday life..
Millions and millions of examples.. They are more than to be count or mentioned.. But they keep happening.. There are some few of them that I wish to share with everyone.. One of the funniest and strangest.. was the time that I found two "ENEMIES" getting married!! They were always fighting and teasing each other.. Then.. After one whole year of being enemies.. He told her that he needs her.. and they got married!! WOW!!
Another one... It is about a man who wished to be someone else so much.. He never tried to be that other person.. Above all, he never had a chance to know that person closely.. They rarely talked.. They rarely met.. And they stopped meeting for more than 4 years... But fate obliged him to be that other one..!! First of all, he worked in the same job, the same place.. He played the same sports.. He practiced the same music.. He even took the same courses.. And at last.. He got married on the same day like that other person.. Well.. Anyone would have assumed that it was organized.. The irony of fate in that point is that "It just happened that way.."!! He never tried to be that other person.. He never though how to be that other person.. But later on.. After 4 years.. they had a chance to talk.. They found themselves really following the same way of living..
Irony of fate.. When you plan for a certain scenario in life.. And you see a total different scenario coming up.. And when you think about it.. You feel it's impossible to happen.. But it simply happened.. Irony of fate.. It happens with me every single day.. And it is a meaning that really touches me pretty often.. 12/21/2008 Confused...I no longer know what is real and what is not..
What should happen.. and what should not..
What I feel.. and what I don't
What you feel .. and what you don't..
I no longer know how things should go..
Whether things are all right or not..
Whether you are who I thought you were or not..
Whether I am who I thought I were or not..
I no longer know..
Whether I should stick to my old everything or not..
Whether I should act as ok or not..
Whether I am really ok or not!!
I no longer know anything..
I no longer know what I want..
I no longer know who I am.. I no longer know how things shall go.. 12/16/2008 I hate youNow it became so true..
The feeling that I hold for you..
Now I really do hate you..
I hate every single memory
I hate every single misery
I hate you and your family
I hate everything about you..
I hate the places you took me to..
The funny thing, they were too few..!
Believe it or not.. I do feel better
You became the only loser
Trust me.. I am the winner
I won myself.. my pride
I won my life.. my freedom
I won my old steady stride..
I gave away my depression..
I never felt any regretion..
On the other hand, I really feel complete satisfaction..
Now I realized.. That I really hate you..!
Relationships IIICouples Relationships (cont'd)
After being on the girl's side for the last couple of posts, it is time to be fair. It is not always the man's fault for the destruction of the relationship. Girls have a HUGE role as well. In the same manner like I did for the girls, there were some surverys about the things men hate about girls...
I hate it when you do not respect your time
I hate it when you are empty headed
I hate it when you tell me every single actor on the TV is adorable, you make me sick!
I hate it when you take less care of yourself
I hate it when you tell me to select between you and my family
I hate it when you assume you're higher than me
I hate it when you see my bad things, and always overlook the good things
I hate it when you tell my secrets to your friends..
I hate it when you never have enough! You do not see how much effort I do for your sake..
I hate it the most when you assume it's ok to have a lot of male fans - you do not respect my moderate jealousy..
I hate it when you are my mother! I was hoping that you be a wife, a fiance, a girlfriend.. but I never searched for a second mother!
That was some few things that pisses a guy off in a relationship.. The main point is that a girl should respect the fact that she belongs to someone.. If a girl lives her life as if she is TOTALLY independent it is wrong.. Also if a girl lives as if she is TOTALLY dependent, it is wrong as well.. I pointed out some little things that piss a guy off his girl in a relationship..
In the upcoming posts I will try to point out some little things about the relation as a whole.. The fact that there is a relationship, there should be mutual tasks and obligations on both partners... Well.. I will leave it to the next post :)
To be continued... 12/13/2008 Relationships - IICouples Relationships (cont'd)
In the last post, I mentioned somethings that piss a girl off in any relationship. Girls by nature are fragile, tender and romantic. These special three characteristics need special care. Men usually believe in that their masculinity is in thier toughness and roughness with everyone around including his girl. Unfortunately, this destroys everything about a relationhip and above all, it destroys the girl herself.
For a girl, YES she does need to feel his masculinity, but NEVER with her. She needs to feel him the toughest man with everyone, the most reliable person on Earth and also the most tender with her. Does it seem to be a hard equation??! In fact "NO". There is a famous saying that states "Inside every man lives an innoncent child". I believe this is so true. And this is how a man would be rough in his life and the most tender with his girl.
One important fact that most men overlook - at least in our country here. Even when they believe in their inner child, their need for indulgance and care, they totally neglect the girl's needs for more care. Because she is dependant by nature, she is not tough like the man's world and above all, she is fragile. Roughness simply breaks her..
"Tenderness never meant weakness"
To be continued...
12/10/2008 It's youWhen I think of you
I always smile
I remember you.. The way you treat me so fragile The way you look into my eyes The way they capture mine The way you listen if I cry The way we cross the line I remember the old days we had
No matter what our lips said The eyes talked much louder My feelings are here all that time I just had to wait for sometime Now it's true.. It is you All my life I waited for you Now it's time to live with you Nothing is as youNothing is sweeter than your eyes meeting mine Nothing is softer than your hands holding mine Nothing is more gentle than feeling your cheeks over mine Nothing is more relaxing than you talking to me Nothing is safer than you walking by me Nothing is nicer than your odor passing by me Nothing is more enjoyable than seducing you Nothing is more amazing than dancing with you Nothing is more adorable than dreaming with you Nothing was ... Nothing is ... Nothing will ever be ... As sweet as you .. StabbedI feel stabbed with a sword..
It started with my heart.. and turned it around.. Then went down my whole body till my toe..
splitting me into two.. That sword did not had enough.. It went back to my heart..
Split it again and again.. Then it got my heart out of my chest.. The sword never had enough..
It went up and up.. Split my brain into two.. Wounds all around..
My heart.. My mind.. My soul.. Covered with blood.. Crying blood.. I feel stabbed.. **That is an old poem.. It has nothing to do with me now.. Relationships - IFor the upcoming posts.. I wish to talk about relationships.. It is about relationships with everyone.. everything that surrounds you.. No need for a long introduction.. Let me start with this one..
Couples Relationships
I collected several surveys from some people.. and this is what girls dislike.. A girl expressing her feelings once said..
I hate it when you pretend to be looking into my eyes.. while you are simply just playing with me..
I hate it when you give me orders to do things you cannot do yourself.. I hate it when you don't listen to what I say.. I hate it when you get convinced only when it's too late.. It's normally after things get too much complicated... I hate it when you don't try to improve (or change) yourself (or your habits) for our sake..Meanwhile I do the impossible to change to anything for your sake.. I hate it when you don't see how much efforts I do for you.. I hate it when you forget anything I tell you.. or ask you.. I hate it when you feel lazy to see me.. be with me.. I loath that laziness.. in other words.. You make me feel that you're indifferent about me.. I hate it when you choose sleeping to spending time with my family and me.. I hate it when you give me a promise.. and after all.. it's gone with the wind.. A dozen of things that piss a girl off.. Even if they seemed trivial.. They can mean the world for her..
To be continued... I'm back..It has been so long since I last posted anything.. There has been a lot going on my life recently.. But I will be back.. discussing anything.. everything.. thoughts.. objections.. on life.. feelings.. country.. or even friends..
I just wanted to say..
I'm back :) 7/13/2008 وضاعت اللغة
جاءنا البارحة خطاب من هيئة قضائية بسبب بعض المشاكل فى العمارة.. المهم.. لقد صعقت من اللغة المكتوبة.. فإما ان الكاتب كان طالب ابتدائى.. أو أنه أجنبى.. وإنى أعتقد أنه لو كان أجنبيا.. لكان سلم من هذه الأخطاء الفادحة.. فكيف يكون الحكم القضائى الذى هو بطبيعة الحال يستخدم أبلغ الكلمات ويعرف من النحو والبلاغة ما قد يجعله شاعرا وناقدا أدبيا.. وهو المشهور بقدرته على انتقاء أرقى المعانى.. يكون قد وصل لهذه الركاكة.. بل وبالأخطاء الاملائية!!!
حقا انها صدمة.. ويا لها من صدمة.. فتأملوا معى هذه الأخطاء الاملائية... انة فى يوم ../../.. تم الحكم فى هذة القضيه............... وقد تم أبلاغ المنذر والمنذر ألية بحكم الأستئناف..............
وكان من المفروض أن تكون هذه الكلمات كالتالى.. أنه فى يوم ../../.. تم الحكم فى هذه القضية............... وقد تم إبلاغ المنذر والمنذر إليه بحكم الإستئناف..............
لا أدرى هل المشكلة فى.. أم انها أصبحت مشكلة أمة.. أمة لا تعرف الفرق بين الهاء والتاء المربوطة.. أمة لا تعرف الفرق بين المواضع المختلفة للهمزة.. أمة لا ترى عيبا فى كتابة "لاكن (لكن)..... نحنوا (نحن) ....... هاذة (هذه) ....." ولك من الأمثال الكثير والكثير..
فنحن تهاونا فى هويتنا.. وفى لغتنا.. وفى ديننا.. وفى كل شئ.. حتى فى أرضنا.. ماذا بقى أيضا لنتهاون فيه؟!!! 6/6/2008 The brotherOne of my dreams was to have a brother When I knew you.. You are the life I always wished to have 5/19/2008 Love RescueYou buried my love somewhere in a desert.. No one can find it.. not even a lizard! You forgot that we are supposed to be one My happiness means to you none.. You always think of what makes you happy Even if that will make me cry Why can't you see me unhappy Why can't you notice that love will die.. Why can't you rescue it.. Why can't you feel it..
Love is screaming for rescue.. But it seems you are shutting your ears.. It seems you are enjoying my tears I cannot rescue love on my own.. I need you here.. I cannot do it alone.. If only you would sacrifice for my sake.. for your sake.. for OUR sake.. for love's sake.. Don't pretend that Love is fake.. Don't assume that we need a break! All what we need.. is rescuing our love.. 5/18/2008 One year ago
One year ago.. 4/20/2008 A point of view..A point of view..
When you are very angry because of someone.. and you hold your anger.. When someone frustrates you.. accuses you with insanity.. considers you a loon.. looks upon you as a little kid.. disrespects your feelings.. your thoughts.. assumes you are making the wrong decisions on the wrong time.. when that someone becomes so angry that he/she starts to shout and scream!
On the other hand.. You hold your anger.. You control your temper.. your mood.. You keep so calm.. You say nothing.. Not because of weakness.. But because of strength.. Because you are a thousand percent sure that you are right.. Because you know that you are right to a degree that there is no need to give a justification to your point of view.. No need to give any explaination.. No need to argue.. No need to get angry..
Is it that simple? Can anyone really control his anger? I suppose a normal reaction to such situation is turning to a mad beast and start to scream to each other.. But I realized that the real POWER is to control your temper.. Control your anger.. And after some time.. Say the right words to decrease the situation.. and fix everything..
Is it that simple? I just know that controlling your temper and holding your anger when you get really frustrated.. is the real power.. This is my own point of view.. because nothing deserves in this life.. to get angry for.. and lose the eternal Heavens in the next life..
As Allah sob7anaho wa ta3ala said:
"والكاظمين الغيظ والعافين عن الناس"
It's not an easy task.. But it is really worth to apply.. Not to lose others.. To gain power.. and above all.. Gain Eternal happiness in Heavens in shaa Allah..
Just a point of view..... 4/10/2008 Love is to accept.. Not to expectWhenever you will expect.. It is time to accept.. not to expect |
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